How Does It Feel To Fall In Love Again?

It has been a long tiring day....Just got back from teaching at church...In fact, just got back from having drinks with some girls from church. Fun chatty moments with them... :)

One suddenly popped this question... "Kerry, how does i feel to fall in love?" I looked at her blindly and for that moment...I thought to myself...Omg...you know what girl...I don't recall...I don't remember..Its sad huh?Over these 26 years of my life..I have probably only fallen in love...once?twice? Thats prolly it...

Dictionary defines LOVE as:

1.a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.
2.a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.

**When was the last time YOU ever felt that way? When was the last time your heart beat so fast when you see that certain someone?When was the last time you received flowers/gifts but all that caught your attention was that special someone?When was the last time you kissed and it felt like you were on cloud 9?When was the last time you cuddled up with someone and wished you'd be in his/her arms forever?When was the last time you held THAT person's hand and wished you'd walk down the aisles with him/her someday?When was the last time you said I LOVE YOU and REALLY meant it?**

*Think about it*

Frankly,I don't remember BUT it would be nice to experience it once again...someday...somehow *winks*

These days I hear people going around telling their (maybe) a week partner "I love you, I can;t live without you"( and all that sweet talkin`) Little do they know that the 3 words "ILOVEU" hold major responsibilities.The responsibility to care for that person, the responsibility to love that person no matter what happens, the responsibility stand up for that person in circumstances and the responsibility to be a source of comfort and strength to that particular person when all else fails.

Like the old sayin` goes 'Action Speaks Louder Than Words' .. Are you READY for all that? If you are, then you're ready to fall in love :)

Look..I'm not talkin` like I'm an expert in LOVE or anything like that...I've had failed relationships that hurt but it don't mean that I've lost hope in LOVE...I believe that ONE day...HE will be GOD-SENT.. :)

One thing for sure, I'm a strong believer in LONG TERM relationships... I totally detest the short term,monthly relationships. I see some of my friends changing partners like changing clothes...First of all..I respect them..I don't know how they do it...Coz as far as I know..nothing hurts more than losing someone you truly love.

Ahh....right..maybe they weren't even in love ANYWAYS! *laughs*

But yeh..when you fall in love, you want it to be forever ..(Sounds like a fairy tale huh?) Well...maybe thats just me.. :)

Standing at a girl's point of view...When a man tells us..I LOVE YOU...we want them to MEAN IT...Girls are sensitive. emotional and simple.All they want is to have the assurance that the man they are with OR going to be with is the man that will be with them through it all. :)

Simply said .

So GUYS...the next time you tell a girl I LOVE U..think about the responsibilities that you have to hold. No kidding!

There are many cases of which women becoming suicidal because the men they were with did not fulfill their promises of loving their partners. Its saddening though... :(

*laughs*

I don't even know what am I writing about but all I know is that :

GREAT PROMISES COMES GREATER RESPONSIBILITIES...

and again..

DON'T FALL IN LOVE FOR THE SAKE OF FALLING IN LOVE.....LOVE ONLY WHEN YOU KNOW ITS RIGHT

I know some of you are gonna tell me... WHO ARE YOU TO TELL US...HOW TO FALL IN LOVE WHEN YOU YOURSELF IS NOT EVEN IN A RELATIONSHIP....

You're RIGHT..So damn right! But at least when I do get in one....I treasure it.... :) That's all that matters....

When the RIGHT one comes your way..you'll know it...may take years...or months...or days...Don't matter...Your HEART WILL LEAD YOU :)

Too much talking as of now....better hit the sack~

And oh....if you're questioning whether if Kerry's in love? The answer is NO...SHE'S NOT!HAHAHA....she's just blabbin' her mind and heart out~

OK

WHATEVER!

Will tell ya'll bout my PRINCE CHARMING when I FIND ONE!

Nite!

xoxoxo

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves."-- 1 Corinthians 13:4-7